Yesterday, I finally sat down and made
my itinerary to travel to the Rockies, the Midwest and the Northern
East coast for the project. This morning, I feel a million times
lighter. Not that I don't have more planning to do, fundraising as
well, but at least this part of it is done. It's been weighing
heavily on my mind. I also made plans to travel to Texas and
Louisiana. I still need to make plans to travel to North Dakota,
Pennsylvania, Virginia, South Carolina, Florida, Southern California,
Arizona and New Mexico. I'm also quickly discovering that it's going
to take quite a bit more money to do it all. I'll have to work on
that or find other ways to get photos of those whom I can't get to.
I am so lucky to have the support of my
partner through all of this. I spend the majority of my time, away
from work, working on this project. Last night she sat down at the
table where I was working and said, “Do you know how much I love
you?” I asked her if all of my time spent working on the project
was driving her crazy. She said no. She loved me even more for
working on the project because it makes me happy. She can see what it
does to me. The project truly is a labor of love for me. It came from
and continues to come from my heart.
The support I've gotten for the project
has been mind blowing to me. Messages like this one represent the
“mind blowing” I'm talking about:
“Your project moved me to tears. I
wanted to say thank you for doing something like this- something to
capture what is so rarely seen. As a sociologist, my own background
has been LGBT (and all other acronyms) focused - primarily on
self-esteem, perceived social acceptance, and coming out. As a
lesbian, my research has been intended to highlight the importance of
coming out and acceptance. Your photographs are worth more than my
thousands of words.”
I can't even begin to find the words to
express exactly how much stuff like this means to me. See? Mind.
Blowing.
It's affecting people in ways I hadn't
even thought about. Good ways. Ways that help others and that's the
goal of this project. To help others see that they are not alone in
this world. To put faces to the words and identities and to show that
there are an endless amount of identities in the world and in our
community.
Yes, bottom line is that we are all
human, but we're not all the same. We are all unique individuals with
our own expressions, identities and ways of being in the world. Let's
celebrate everyone! Let's celebrate the fact that you can choose to
not be “put in a box with a label” or you can choose to be put in
as many boxes as you want with as many labels as you want.
I look forward to a world where
everyone is equal but I also look forward to a world where everyone
is celebrated. A world where we can all truly be free to be exactly
who we are.
